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Life is short, unfortunately, but worse yet—we don't know how short, and there's no way to know for sure. You can adopt a "Que sera, sera" attitude, but if you have any dependents, including dogs, you may want to think long and hard about what might happen to them if you should suddenly keel over or be in a fatal car accident.
There's no point in being morbid about it—but it does pay to be prepared. Just the thought of an animal control agency scooping up my beloved pooches and placing them in a home that I might not approve of or separating the ones who love each other gives me a panicky feeling. But there's no need to worry about it at all if you plan ahead for the worst-case scenario.
Luckily, PETA's got you covered. We just launched a new Web feature that gives you all the ins and outs of planning for your animals' future on the off-chance that you happen not to be in it. It's called "Planning for Your Beloved Animal Companions." Through this site, you can order a comprehensive "Companion Animal Planning Packet" that includes a booklet with more detailed information, an emergency wallet card with space for information about your animal companions, three emergency animal care instruction sheets for friends or neighbors who could come and take care of your animals in an emergency, and "Please Save Our Animals" stickers for your front and back doors.
Approaching friends or relatives to ask them to become your dog's guardian in case of your demise is something that you can't do after you're dead, so you want to get this done in the present moment. You also don't want to just secretly name them in your will as your dogs' new guardians and hope for the best, because even good friends and close family members might not be able to accept that enormous responsibility. And if they refuse it, you won't be around to come up with a Plan B. So make arrangements now. And put them in writing.
Wills aren't just for rich people who can afford to leave a lot of money to someone. When you're gone, your dogs are going to need a new home no matter how much or how little money you had, and now is the best time to figure out where and with whom that home should be and to include that information in your will.
Also, write down all the things that Fluffy loves and hates and is accustomed to. That way, her new guardian won't have to start from scratch. She'll continue to get to eat her favorite foods, enjoy scratches in all the right places, and engage in her favorite activities and games. This will go a long way toward easing the transition.
It should be said, though, that for a very old, very ill, very nervous, or very unsocialized animal who would likely suffer a lot going through such a transition, euthanasia might be a kinder option. I don't say that lightly, because I always tend to hold onto hope and try to be optimistic. But I don't think it's fair, looking at it from the animal's point of view, to force a dog into a frightening new situation in which there is very little chance of a successful adjustment and a strong likelihood of prolonged and intense grief. There is nothing on this Earth more heart-wrenching than a grieving dog.




Comments ( 4 )
Yay for the pug picture!! :)
Posted by Lauren | February 24, 2008 5:23 PM
Posted on February 24, 2008 17:23
Congratulations to all at Peta that thought this up.
This is SO NEEDED!!
Hope you will place links to this page everwhere you can, including maybe on web search sites.
Posted by kelly | February 25, 2008 4:09 PM
Posted on February 25, 2008 16:09
I will pass along a very frustrating story. A woman who was dying had an elderly dog that had many health problems and would not transition well into a new home.
She stipulated in her estate plans that if she died, her dog was to be humanely euthanized by her vet, a person that the dog knew and felt comfortable with.
Well, the trustee of her estate did not follows her instructions and the dog got put in a new home- after they advertised! There wasn't even a home available and ready within the family.
I only pray that dog went to a home that truly did care for the dog and not just dump the poor animal as so many people do, or tie the dog up outside, or hit the dog when she had an accident, or whatever.
It was enraging that the trustee did not follow the owner's wishes.
We all need to make sure our trustees or executors cannot take matters into their own hands and make their own decisions for us.
Posted by kelly | February 25, 2008 4:17 PM
Posted on February 25, 2008 16:17
Hi Karen,
yet again I'm writing to thank you for your useful tips. In Italy the law obliges you to leave at least 66% of your estate (mine is tiny) to your children. The remaining 33%, which I would like to leave to PETA, would be too small for my liking. so what I was thinking of doing is to put what sum I can afford into a UK bank account with a 'will' to be incorporated in my account conditions that says that the entire sum in my account at the time of my death be given to PETA. Do you have any info as to how this idea could work ? Would it be legally binding ? Ihave double citizenship British/Italian so I think that a bank account in UK should favour my British citizenship and would release me from my italian obbligations. But I'm not sure. Any info you can give me would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks again, Shirley
>>>KP's Response:
Hi Shirley!
I'm sorry to take so long to get back to you--I've been on vacation.
Thanks so much for your comments! I'm going to have someone in our Planned Giving Department (Tim) get back to you about this. I'm sure he can answer all your questions.
Take care,
KP
Posted by shirley moore | February 28, 2008 11:40 AM
Posted on February 28, 2008 11:40