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'It' Has Feelings

"Excuse me! Did you call me 'it'?! I'm a she, thank you very much, and my name is Emma. Ms. Emma to you!"
'It' Has Feelings

Long ago, in my previous life, I was a linguist and one of my areas of interest was sexism in the English language. Of course, all the "male chauvinists" pooh-poohed this as a non-problem, but I knew they were wrong. In my research, I had found studies showing that women had worse recall of texts that were couched in "masculine generic" language, such as using "he" and "man" to mean both men and women, but they had much better recall of texts that used "gender-inclusive" language, such as "humankind," "people," "he or she," and "they." And even when "man" was intended to include women, it often didn't. I looked at books with the supposedly generic "man" in the title, such as How Man Began, or something like that—and there really were very few women in the books at all, except in chapters on reproduction.

So language can actually influence the way we think, and that is very significant. That's why they say, "The pen is mightier than the sword."

Of course, since coming to PETA, my focus has shifted more toward avoiding the use of inanimate pronouns ("it" and "which") for animals so as not to promote a lack of respect for them. Animals are living, breathing, locomoting beings with intense feelings, just like us, so why should we refer to them in the same way that we refer to a table or a cup? Not only is it disrespectful and inaccurate, it also gives tacit permission to treat that animal in a less humane manner. In other words, if you call both a dog and a punching bag "it," they might be equally likely to get hit. That may seem like an extreme example, but is it really? Dogs and other animals are being beaten, starved, kicked, mutilated, and otherwise abused all across our country every single day. Could language be at least partly to blame? I can't prove it, but I think it does play a role.

So in my book, all dogs are "he," "she," "he or she," "they," "Fido," "Fluffy," etc.—never "it."

In a related language issue, at PETA we usually avoid the term "pet" for dogs and other animals. Is that nitpicking? I don't think so. To me, "pet" conjures up the image of an animal who is really nice and pretty but nevertheless expendable, that is, not essential to the family. Just someone to play with and caress and look at but not someone to go to bat for if inconvenient circumstances were to arise. So we give dogs a label that expresses something more substantial: "companion animal." Better yet: "animal companion." "Animal companion" is better because it refers to a companion who just happens to be an animal, whereas "companion animal" refers to an animal whose purpose is to be a companion to humans, which could be construed as the animal's use. And we don't care whether dogs are useful or not—they have an innate worth apart from their usefulness.

One final note: Dogs are the most loving, forgiving, beautiful creatures on the planet. So please don't call someone a "dog" unless you mean it as a compliment!

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Comments ( 8 )

Becky F. :

Right on. Most people recognize the power of suggestion, or of repeating a phrase until it is "true" ("I am happy"). Using terms that refer to animals as sentient, living beings, not objects, is no different; it may affect how one feels towards (and treats) the animal. Who can't see the warmth imparted in, "She's 3 years old" compared to the detached coldness of "It's 3 years old"? Words make a difference.

Anonymous :

What about using the word cue instead of command? Or request.

Mindi Marton :

I absolutely agree with you. I refer to my dogs by their names or their nicknames such as my babies or my sweeties, just as I would my children. I wouldn't refer to my child as it and I most definately wouldn't refer to my baby as "it"!

Dawn D :

Language most certainly makes a different - for good and bad! Which sounds better? 'meat processing plants'or slaughterhouses? (right, to a vegan - neither, but to the average human...). Generic reference to a non-human animal is intentional - its purpose is to underhandedly teach us that 'it' is separate from us, not like us, etc., and so it becomes easier for us to mistreat directly or indirectly(by eating someone else's slaughtered animals) these most innocent, feeling, caring, and incredible beings. Men did it to women, whites to non-whites, humans to non-humans...who's next?

karen :

So true! My dog is my SON. THere is no "it" in my house, just RIley or my son. That's how it should be.

Flo :

Wonderful post, OP! ("KP") Most people don't seem to realize how seemingly minor things really mean so much. I've always made it a point to correct people who say "living THINGS" to say "living BEINGS". It seems innocuous but it makes a big difference when you realize what's going on! I applaud your efforts in animal rights as well as equal rights for women. Both are such underrated issues, looked down upon as, exactly, "non-problems"! Easy to say for a selfish person that has no concept of the feelings of others...

Geri :

"It" is an insult. When my beloved Ms. Kittie died from the tainted pet food,I felt as if my heart and soul had died with her. And some dumb human said to me,"It was only a cat...." She was my friend and companion,she was my world.

>>>KP's Response:

Hi Geri,
I'm so sorry for your loss. How terrible! That must have been devastating for you. Ms. Kittie was very special, I'm sure. People who say such things are simply blind to all the wonderful qualities that we see in our animal companions. I feel sorry for them.
KP

Aly :

I really don't understand why using "man" to be universal is offensive. Our world is masculine. People also need to understand that if you don't know the gender of the dog, "it" is a way to refer to the dog while asking the name or gender. People do the same for babies in green or yellow, like "Is IT a girl or a boy?". I don't see anything wrong with that.

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